My Rant About Cheating And Extra Stuff

Disclaimer:

I normally don't edit what I write. I don't care what people think about the curse words I choose to use or not. But, because I may want feedback on this at some point in time I have opted to take out the NO NO words.



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I'm about to pop a blood vessel! Here is the problem (I have probably talked about this before, but trust me these will be different words that I use).


Here is what I want to say to most of the male population?


ARE YOU AN IDIOT??????


I don't like people who cheat period. Yeah, yeah, yeah everyone has their story for why they did it or whatever. I don't care what your excuse is. "Oh, she didn't please me in the bedroom enough" Or "She didn't cook my breakfast!"


No, lets get to the facts. You were just too much of a coward to end things with her. I HATE Males, who stomp around claiming to be "MEN" and then when you ask them to tell you the truth they somehow forget that they have lips.


HMMMMMMMMM, well, you used your lips to slop down another woman, so I'm sure that they work just fine.


WHO has time for that crap?


"I'm sorry I cheated!" Get out of here with that mess!




I would rather you just break up with me and let me move on to someone better, than to sit around and think that you are being faithful to me. And men are so stupid, you must think that the stuff you do in the dark will not come to the light! Yes, sweety it will. And if, not today or even this year. Then sometime before you die. And even when you are dead people will still be digging up stuff on you. And the more horrible stuff they find out about you the more they will spit on your grave.

Some of you might be thinking, "But people make mistakes?"

That is true, but don't make a mistake at the EXPENSE of someone elses' feelings. If you don't like them just tell them and move on. 

If you want to be a loser be a loser on your own time, but not mine. The nerve of some of the men on this planet to think that they can waste their TIME with foolishness and the time of someone else.

And for those of you who think that I'm bashing men, well I am, but some women are no better.

Poor woman (this is just from one perspective of course) is sitting in the house, hungry and pregnant wanting her husband to rub her feet at least and whats his dingy butt doing? Playing online. Taking pictures of himself like an idiot, so he can post them online and have other women admire him because he has LOW SELF-ESTEEM. And needs an EGO BOOST often. Needy loser.

I don't want to be with any male like that.

"Poor me, I look fat today."

"poor me, I'm balding"

Well, get your big fat balding butt out of bed and do something about it!

I could understand if most of the men in the media who are getting "CAUGHT" were young.

Ok. You are young, live and learn (I still don't agree with making mistakes at the expense of someone elses feelings though NOOOOOOOOOOOO!).

You are almost ancient bones! And you are still acting like that? You are so bored with all of your money, power and life in general that you have to mess up your family and all your goals just to get some drama going in your life?

WAY TO GO IDIOT! You get a gold star!
Well some people would say, "Well its his life to mess up!" That's fine but when someone else is involved, then its not OK!


But then: You have women who STAY with the cheater.
Wait did I miss something here?

He just CHEATED ON YOU!

"oh, he had a moment of weakness..."

*Crickets*

*Dust balls*

OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH yeah and AIDS wants to shake your hand. Have a great day.


"Well at least he used a condom with her."

Condoms break. And on top of that, you don't know WHERE she has been and WHO SHE has been with. The End.

Especially those women who have been with their men for like a year or less. Are you INSANE? Get your head out of clouds. And go find another man. He is not the ONLY ONE and OBVIOUSLY, he doesn't care about you because he would not have cheated on you in the first place?

That situation isn't difficult to handle.

But maybe a situation that might be a little more difficult to handle would be one where children (young children mostly) are involved.
Ahhhhhhhh,  poor kids...

There are no amount of FUZZY FEELINGS on this earth that are worth staying in a messed up relationship with a cheater and a coward for. Some women are like, "well I love him and he said he was sorry. He said he wouldn't do it again!"

OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOH!

He won't do it again ANYTIME SOON! But as soon as you piss him off or say something that he doesn't like or he gets around his HOME BOYS, there he goes dropping his draws again to the first woman ready to give it up to him.

If you want a REAL MAN in your life, you have to have self-confidence, self-respect and most of all you have be able to Get in his face when he is wrong. If the relationship is messed up now, it will be messed up later. Because he just aint plain ol' NO GOOD.