In dating sometimes we spend so much time thinking about what they COULD be thinking about us. We, of course, never stop to ask them for fear of their response not being something we WANT to hear. But sometimes, maybe what we don't want to hear is just what needs to be said.
Don't think about Dating the person.
Don't think about where you would like to take them, just take them there!
I know! I know! Do they like me? Will they stay around in my life? Will they call me next week? Ect
Those are questions that you want immediate answers to. But at the end of the day you really have no control over how the other person feels. You can only present how you feel and let them decide.
They could like you very much, but maybe they are going through a tough time.
There are many reasons for things to happen, but if they really care about you they will let you know what is going on with them. They will not leave you to worry.
So the next time you are on a date, don't THINK about having fun JUST HAVE FUN! And the rest will fall however it should. Because much time can be given but love can not be forced.
We only get one life, lets not waste it worrying about a future that we have much say it, but one that can be changed at anytime. We need to spend our time with people who make a conscious effort to be apart of our lives and stop running after or pining for the ones that don't.
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