I wrote this a couple of days ago. I had time to reflect on how fall I have come since being a complete hopeless romantic. I had to time to reflect on my what I could have done better in my previous relationships and what worked for us at the time.
People don't realize that although dating should be fun, they should also be cautious about who they invest their time into. Because sometimes the person that you are most in want of at the time, is the person that will pull your life down in the end. They maybe really sweet and caring people, but they maybe do things that cause a lot of conflict in their lives on a regular basis. If they are constantly busy with dealing with other peoples issues, too, then how will they have time to focus on building a relationship with you?
Anyway things are some questions that a person should really sit down and reflect on before they make that move to being in a serious relationship with anyone...
1. Habits
2. Lifestyle
3. Their interactions with other people
4. How they handle change
5. How they handle stress
6. Are you happy? (With them as a person, with their company? etc)
1. Are their habits agreeable with the person you are in that phase in your life?
2. Is their lifestyle agreeable with the person you are in that phase in your life?
3. How do they treat other people?
4. Do they handle change well?
5. How do they handle stress? And do they handle stress well or not?
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